Replace anxiety with action
Do one loving thing you can control — write a message.
No contact with your child?
Leave words they can find, when they’re ready.
Feel lighter knowing every message is safe, together, and waiting — growing into a time capsule of love, memories, and support. For your child to one day discover.
Why leave a message?
MessageDrift was created to ease the stress, pressure, and anxiety of being an alienated parent. It gives you a place to save your thoughts, memories, and love. Messages your child can discover when they’re ready. You may not have contact now, but when they come looking, your words will be here waiting — ready to bring them home.
🔐Private by default
🛡️Gently reviewed for safety
📬Manage & edit anytime
Some parents find that a consistent record of messages helps demonstrate ongoing effort and care in family matters. MessageDrift is not a legal tool and does not provide legal advice — always seek professional advice before relying on any information in court.
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messages saved worldwide
Start your timeline of love and effort
Every message you save becomes a dated step in your story — birthdays, holidays, quiet nights and tough days. Over time it can build a clear timeline of your care and consistency. Some parents choose to share that history in family court as extra context, but MessageDrift itself isn’t a legal tool and can’t give legal advice. Always speak with a lawyer before relying on anything in court.
January · New Year
“A fresh year, same wish”
Another new year, and you’re still the first person I think of. Wherever you are tonight, I hope you feel safe, loved, and proud of who you’re becoming. When you read this one day, I hope it reminds you that my hope for us never disappeared.
Do something that brings you closer — even from afar.
Feel lighter once it’s written
Get the weight out of your head and into a space that does some good — a place that keeps your love safe.
Sleep easier knowing your words are ready to be found
When they come looking, your messages will be here — easy to access, ready for them to read.
How it works
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Write your message
Add your name and your child’s name, then share your words from the heart.
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We keep it safe
Your message is stored and moderated for safety before it’s visible.
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They search and find
Your child enters both names — if there’s a message, it appears for them.
Why create an account?
Keep your messages organised and your contact details current — making sure your child can reach you when they’re ready.
- Leave unlimited messages
- Build a time capsule your child can revisit
- Download as a PDF to keep or share
- Private & Secure — no ads, no tracking
Note: Some families tell us that keeping a consistent record can be helpful context in family matters. MessageDrift is not a legal tool and does not provide legal advice — please speak to a lawyer first.
Your safety matters
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Review & moderation
Messages are scanned for harmful language and may be held for review.
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Privacy first
We don’t sell your data to third parties. Ever.
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Restricted access
Only someone who enters both names and the date of birth can view a message.
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