What to share — and who can see your messages

What to share: Keep your messages personal and meaningful, but avoid posting private details like email addresses, street addresses, or sensitive information. If you want your child to contact you directly, you can choose to include a phone number — but that’s optional.

Who can see: Messages are not public and won’t appear in search engines. They can only be viewed if someone knows the parent and child’s names plus the child’s date of birth. This setup makes it easy for your child to find their messages later, while keeping them hidden from the general public. Do note, though, that anyone who has those details would be able to access the message.

Start your message

These details help us create or find your child’s private message space.

Shown on your message
Used to match their message space
Prevents mix-ups
✨ A gentle note: If this is your first time leaving a message for your child, you can send a short one — on us.

Guest vs account — what’s the difference?

Guest: Leave one short message (up to 500 characters) without creating an account. Fast and private — but you won’t be able to send more messages or manage them later.

Account: Sign up to leave unlimited follow-ups, see your history, and manage messages over time.